04-02-2008, 4:38 PM
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ripper1234

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Does anyone have the same problem...
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Well I am really shy person so i dont really talk to people unless I know them really well. And with the past 2 girls I wanted to hook up with it didnt work well because I didn't talk to much unless it is texting or something. I really want something to happen between me and this girl but I don't know what to say to her and need help. Any advice for shy people?
 
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04-02-2008, 4:46 PM
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Unreal_Arbiter_

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Re: Does anyone have the same problem...
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If you're friends with one of her friends then start to hang around that friend. By doing that you get close to the girl you want to hook up with, you could get to know her well. Once you've gone past the stage of being shy, with her, ask her on a date.
 Thanks for the sig, Crizy.
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04-02-2008, 4:51 PM
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puredolemite

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Re: Does anyone have the same problem...
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As is commonly said in these instances, you need confidence; so your best bet is to get comfortable with her socially first, you'd be rather turned off if some chick out of the blue came up to you and said "umm....I was wondering if you'd, umm.....kinda....go out with me?" (which would be really odd since women tend not to ask guys out) So become good friends with her first.
Also, learn from the past, you were too hesitant in the past and lost your chance, only fools redo the same mistakes over and over again.
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04-02-2008, 5:12 PM
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ripper1234

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Well thats the problem I don't even talk to her and I talk to one of her friends but only texting... And thats kinda new for me usually the girl asks me out, and thats what has happened the past 3 times as weird as that sounds.
 
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04-03-2008, 6:40 AM
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Unreal_Arbiter_

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Whatever you do, don't ruin it by first texting her. That happened to me once, a while ago. I started texting a girl before I even knew her and we hit it off but it never worked out too well, I don't know why... Just talk to her a few times before asking her out.
 Thanks for the sig, Crizy.
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04-04-2008, 5:08 AM
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ripper1234

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Re: Does anyone have the same problem...
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Thats what happened to me last time. I started texting this chick but we only texted did really talk or anything. Well I will give that a try sometime. Thanks
 
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04-14-2008, 1:41 PM
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ripper1234

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Thats what happened to the last 2 people I went out with they asked me. And thats kind of the problem now is that i have never really asked anyone before, and I don't really talk to people that i normally don't talk to
 
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04-18-2008, 11:39 AM
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GamingFanatic

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Wait wait wait...so you haven't even talked to this girl, only her friend? Dude, step one would be to TALK to the girl you like. The more you talk to her (even if it's just simple 'hey, how are ya') the more comfortable you'll be around her and the easier it'll be to later ask her out.
And to throw my own experience into the mix, I've never asked a guy out, they've always asked me.
 Current Project: Name Crazyness 6 & YoruJi fanart I teh haff respect for teh KAG. I am the enforcer of my boss, who's now THE boss.
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04-18-2008, 12:39 PM
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puredolemite

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Uhhh, you want to go down to the pub tonight, GF? I want to go to the pub, and I was just thinking...you know....
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04-18-2008, 2:12 PM
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GamingFanatic

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Sure, as long as I can bring my sadistic instruments of torture with me
 Current Project: Name Crazyness 6 & YoruJi fanart I teh haff respect for teh KAG. I am the enforcer of my boss, who's now THE boss.
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04-18-2008, 2:15 PM
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puredolemite

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We going to pick up a few drunks on the way back then? A good way to end a night after the pub if you ask me.
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04-18-2008, 2:47 PM
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GamingFanatic

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Maybe. It depends on how good you are.
 Current Project: Name Crazyness 6 & YoruJi fanart I teh haff respect for teh KAG. I am the enforcer of my boss, who's now THE boss.
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