04-18-2008, 1:49 PM
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diabloman345

Joined on 07-17-2005
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There's this girl I like (no not the one from my other post), and I really want to ask her out. The problems are: 1. How do i ask her without being nervous (or at least less nervous), and 2. I really want to stay friends with her if she says no, so would asking her out affect our friendship?
Anybody going slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac. - George Carlin
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04-19-2008, 5:57 AM
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Unreal_Arbiter_

Joined on 09-23-2007

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If you ask her out and she says "no", your friendship will be affected. It may feel a little awkward for the both of you.
Can't really help you on your first question... because it's always nerve racking asking a girl out, unless you're already really good friends with her.
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04-19-2008, 1:17 PM
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GamingFanatic

Joined on 07-30-2005
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You're bound to be nervous, no matter what. But all you do is take a deep breath and get it over with cuz when you do, that nervousness will go away.
I really can't say on the second part though. If you ask her out and she says no...things will indeed be awkward for awhile but hopefully you'll put it behind you and still be able to be friends.
 Current Project: Name Crazyness 6 & YoruJi fanart I teh haff respect for teh KAG. I am the enforcer of my boss, who's now THE boss.
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04-19-2008, 1:23 PM
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gamechick3434
Joined on 04-20-2008
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well if you want to ask her out then get one of your friends to do it for you but if she says no chances are you probably won't stay friends.
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04-19-2008, 1:26 PM
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river

Joined on 01-19-2006
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gamechick3434 wrote: | well if you want to ask her out then get one of your friends to do it for you but if she says no chances are you probably won't stay friends.
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You know nothing about the world around you, do you?
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04-19-2008, 1:35 PM
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puredolemite

Joined on 03-28-2006
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gamechick3434 wrote: | well if you want to ask her out then get one of your friends to do it for you but if she says no chances are you probably won't stay friends.
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Yeah, you see my buddy over there, he wants to ask you out but he just doesn't have the balls to do it himself.
Yep, I can say his odds would be dramatically increased.....make that decreased, women like confidence.
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04-20-2008, 2:58 AM
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Unreal_Arbiter_

Joined on 09-23-2007

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I got a friend to ask a chick out for me...in the third grade. She was my first ever girlfriend, and we lasted over two months.
 Thanks for the sig, Crizy.
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04-20-2008, 2:27 PM
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diabloman345

Joined on 07-17-2005
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so asking someone to ask her out is acceptable? it's either that, i do it myself, or i write her a note asking her
Anybody going slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac. - George Carlin
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04-20-2008, 2:35 PM
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Unreal_Arbiter_

Joined on 09-23-2007

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diabloman345 wrote: | | so asking someone to ask her out is acceptable? it's either that, i do it myself, or i write her a note asking her |
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Only if you're six...
 Thanks for the sig, Crizy.
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04-20-2008, 2:41 PM
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CrazyKid

Joined on 01-31-2006
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Unreal_Arbiter_ wrote: | diabloman345 wrote: | | so asking someone to ask her out is acceptable? it's either that, i do it myself, or i write her a note asking her |
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Only if you're six...
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You were six in grade three? K.....
Crizy
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04-20-2008, 5:23 PM
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puredolemite

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diabloman345 wrote: | | so asking someone to ask her out is acceptable? it's either that, i do it myself, or i write her a note asking her |
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Alright, let me put it this way, you're going to look like a chicken shit that's afraid to show his feeling if you don't do it in person.
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04-21-2008, 11:36 AM
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GamingFanatic

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Do NOT do it in a note. Trust me. Things will just be weird and super awkward and you'll be even MORE nervous waiting for some sort of reply back.
 Current Project: Name Crazyness 6 & YoruJi fanart I teh haff respect for teh KAG. I am the enforcer of my boss, who's now THE boss.
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04-21-2008, 12:02 PM
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sk8erBoy

Joined on 03-04-2008
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Personally, I would first make sure that she likes you.
If she doesn't and says no, then your screwed (As far as being good friends goes)...Trust me...Personal experience talking here.
And I would just ask her in person. It is easier to say no on a note or to one of your friends that to you.
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04-21-2008, 12:10 PM
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Unreal_Arbiter_

Joined on 09-23-2007

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How old are you anyway? If you're seriously considering making someone else ask her out for you, shouldn't you be worrying about other stuff... such as; which tree to climb or which Legos to buy...
 Thanks for the sig, Crizy.
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04-21-2008, 1:58 PM
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Wii the people
Joined on 12-08-2006
Here Until Fall 08
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Hire a pilot to skywrite, "Will you go out with me *insert girls name*"... Thats always works... :P It never works...
So bored...
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